F* the Ex Club!: **
We’ve all got that ex who did us dirty, and this group is the place to let it all out. Vent, scream, cry, laugh—whatever you need to do to get that frustration out. This isn’t your typical support group. It’s rebellious, it’s raw, and it’s all about flipping the bird to your ex and taking back your power. Ready to stop holding back? F*** the Ex Club is where you need to be—just don’t expect us to play nice!

Let’s be real for a second—after a breakup, especially one that involves betrayal of some kind it can feel like you’ve been hit by a truck. But instead of being physically crushed, you’re emotionally steamrolled. And what’s worse? The silence at home where your thoughts are the only company, tormenting you with “what ifs” and “why me’s.” If you’re nodding along, then unintentional dating is exactly what you need.

This isn’t just another breakup support group where we sit around, cry, and hope someone brings enough Kleenex for everyone (although, to be fair, we’ve got plenty of tissues if you need them). No, this is a group of warrior women—those who’ve faced the trenches of love and betrayal and are ready to rise from the ashes like a fabulous phoenix.

We know it would be so easy to throw together an online group. We could all hide behind our screens, share memes about how men (or women) are trash, and bond over virtual wine nights. But let’s face it: that won’t fill the void. Sure, scrolling through a group chat at 2 AM can be comforting, but when the chat goes silent and it’s just you and your thoughts again… it’s back to square one. No. We’re all about real connections, in person, face-to-face, because the healing doesn’t come from staring at a screen and firing off emojis. This is about sitting down together and bonding, not just over shared trauma but through laughter, solidarity, and maybe a few choice words for the ones who did us wrong.

Let’s be honest, sometimes you just need to get out of the house—whether it’s to distract yourself from thinking about them or because your mate has yet again suggested you “move on” like it’s that easy. Spoiler alert: it’s not. But you don’t have to do this alone. There’s nothing quite like finding another woman who just gets you, especially when you’ve both been through the same kind of emotional war. The bonds you form with people who understand can last a lifetime, and trust me, a new friend who’s walked in your shoes can be just as healing as time itself.

Sometimes, we need to vent, to really scathe those exes who made us feel small, sometimes we just need someone to listen, and other times we need to be distracted. Whatever you’re feeling, we’ll be there—no judgment, just support. No one’s going to tell you to “get over it” or “stop thinking about them already.” You’ll get out of it when you’re ready, and until then, we’re with you every step of the way. Let’s be honest, we don’t always tell our friends or family how bad it really is, do we? We keep things to ourselves because we don’t want to worry them.

The truth is, getting over a breakup isn’t that easy. If it were, we’d all be Beyoncé-level empowered every day of the week. Sometimes you need a group of people who get it, who understand the hell of it, and who won’t rush you to heal when you’re simply not ready.

We’re not just about wallowing (although a good venting session is absolutely on the table). Sometimes you just need to be occupied. We get that. That’s why unintentional dating is not sitting in a circle talking about feelings. We’ll have meetups filled with quizzes, games, entertainment, and everything you need to get your mind off things. We’ll even organize other events, like walks or trips away from the local area if the demand is there. All you have to do is suggest it in the sign-up form!

Let’s be real—there’s only so much BS one person can take. This group is all about cutting through the crap and getting down to the real, raw feelings that come with breakups. No sugar-coating, no fake positivity, just real women supporting each other as we navigate through the emotional minefield that is post-breakup life. If you’re tired of pretending you’re fine when you’re not, come join us and let’s tackle this together—no more BS!

And hey, we know it’s not just men who cheat or traumatise their partners—women can do it too. Sadly, we don’t have the resources for a men’s-only group at the moment, but if you think you could help us get one going, we’d love to hear from you. After all, sometimes us women just want to vent about men, and let’s be real, men—you probably don’t want to hear that! Just like we wouldn’t want to hear you slate women, right?